DO NOT HOLD BACK!

At the sight of seeing how painful it is upon losing a friend to a sudden death, it got me thinking as to how my story would end. I tend to imagine how things will be when my time comes. Would I die a legend or would I be just another number added to the fallen loved ones.  

They say when you are about to die, your whole life flashes in front of you. I wonder what the time-line entails, is it the good things that you did in your life or the bad things that flash by you. Time is a baseless concept at that moment because all that you have lived for is summarised in a concise theatrical manner.

The value of life is priceless because no matter how young a person is, when they leave us, the pain is the same. The series of unfortunate events served me a quick reminder on the value of living life without holding back.

In the pursuit of achieving our dreams we tend to get carried away with the day to day hustles of life forgetting that at some point we all die. We always emphasise on “living for the moment” but are we actually doing that?

 

In life we expect everything to fall in the right place and at the right time. To us, human beings, it is all about time. Time to study, time to have fun, time to love and time to marry but God retains the well-kept secret of time to die.

It is with this reason I would like to share my take on love. Love is not something we just decide to feel. Love should not wait for the right time because when it hits you, you will know! Do not be overpowered by the fear of falling for the right person in the wrong time. That is one thing that shall never wait for the right time because it is always the right time to love.

Once you find that person can “click” with, as the modern youth would phrase it, do not hold back! Even if it means you making the first move just go for it. Do not hold back because you never know when all that wonderful feeling will come to an end.

Emancipate your emotions to run free and experience the sweet side of life. No matter how tough life can get, one thing remains constant, and that is love! As long as you have love by your side, be it towards your family, friends or your soul mate, it is still a wonderful feeling.

The moral of my story:

Let yourself not hold any regrets when it comes to love because it is the very same feeling that makes life worth living.